The wait is over, you see the title! Ya girl is off le market, finally for the 9,000 days of pure singleness. It was nice, I’d like to thank you for the time, the opportunity, the lessons learned but being a single pringle is now a distant memory……………. SIKE! So now do I have your attention, NOSEY. However, I think my title is bomb because “speak those things that be not as though they were”. Yes, I am still single but I believe my tall, brown, bearded bae is en route to finding me. I’m not hiding sir. Anyways, I want to talk about something, blog about something so huuur we go. Relationships are meant to help you. I’ll say it again for the ones in the back, “RELATIONSHIPS ARE MEANT TO HELP YOU!” Comprende! God desires for us to have meaningful, purpose filled relationships. Let me prove it. So in Genesis 1, God made everything in 6 days and said it was good. Then in Genesis 2, after God placed Adam in Eden where he had provisions and purpose, which I’ll blog about later,  he said “it is NOT GOOD that man be alone”, so he made Eve, his help meet. HIS EQUAL. More proof, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, Two are better than one… in case one falls one can help the other up..” and so on. So what’s the purpose of relationships? To make you better, to help you succeed, to give glory and honor to God and grant you free meals, lol. Knowing the purpose of a relationship can help you more wisely choose who and who not to give your heart to. So what if he’s cute and has a mysteriously high limit on his credit card, *whispers* scammer. Looks don’t equate to love and no amount of money should cost you your peace. Who cares if he’s giving you hella attention, don’t let boredom bully you into settling. If he’s not helping you get where you’re purposed to be, issa no. If she doesn’t support the dreams and goals that have been placed in your heart, let her go. It’s important to 1, Believe the love: know that God loves you and absolutely, positively not only wants the best for you but HAS it. 2, Love yourself enough to not give into the feelings of loneliness, boredom and ultimately unbelief. We settle because we don’t believe that there is better for us. We are not called to be mediocre nor average so stop accepting it. NO MORE BASIC. I don’t want no regular degular guy because I know I’m not regular. I believe that the person who God has in mind for me will not only compliment me but assist me accomplishing everything that was predestined for my life, vice versa. Too often we waste time playing house, playing mommy, playing parole officer to someone who keeps you stagnant, If you’re not elevating, or have a common goal that you’re working towards, what’s even the point. Don’t be so desperate to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone. Get to know who you are, truly, honestly, deeply. Then love her. Don’t put her in unbeneficial, unsatisfactory predicaments. Continue to love her. Want the best for her. Push her to pursue purpose. Be relentless, consistent, not allowing her to give up at the first sight of adversity. Now keep going. Keep believing. And be patient.

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